Thursday, June 14, 2012

Starting over and enjoying the ride...

Okay so here we are at stage one of the dating scene.  This time around I've decided to do something a little different than I usually do.  See I am a serial relationship gal... meaning I move from one relationship to the next.  The only break I take is the so-called "rebound guy" who I tend to date at the end of a relationship until the beginning of the new one.  I'm not doing that this time around.  Why you ask? The answer is simple when you realize you have a bad habit you work to change it.  So I'm taking a little time to enjoy life... and dating. Yes dating... non-committed dating.  No this doesn't mean I'm going to be slutting around sexing every man in town.  What it means is that I'm not going to tie myself to one guy trying to figure out if he is the one I want to be in my space.  It means I'm going to go out, have some fun, hang around new people and see if... KEY WORD IN THE SENTENCE IS "IF"... we are compatible.  If we are I may see him a few more times.

I've recently read an article that talks about the type of men you should date before you settle.   I thought about it and at 31 I've thought I've been there done that... but really have I.  Not really, in my hopping from serious relationship to serious relationship... I haven't really taken the time to see what these guys were all about. So maybe I'll check out each guy.  Why the hell not?  This may be crazy but it damn sure will be fun to do. I say as I give a devious smile. HAHAHA

The guys are:
 1. The guy who is not that cool
2. The one you've rejected a hundred times
3. The loyal friend
4. The guy from a different race or culture
5. The young entrepreneur
6. The one who is too young or too old
7. The single dad who wants love
8. The man your friend (or mother) keeps trying to set you up with
9. The male version of you
10. The guy who's not your type

          
  I'm going to have to be real some of this is going to be hard to write since 1) I am putting all of my business on front street and 2) Some of the scenes have already ended and run their course so I'm actually writing about them in hindsight. 3)Some of these situations are also combined... IE: The guy who is not that cool also happens to be of a different race/culture... or the loyal friend who I've rejected a hundred times... You get the drift...

TTYL -- Type to you later...
Smooches

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